I realized something recently —
I always thought that if people wanted help, they would ask me.
I was also always too shy / scared / proud to ask others people for help.
….
Eureka!
Everyone thinks like that.
An easy way to counteract this, is to ask people how you can help them. That gets into the right conversation, helps people develop deeper and happier relationships.
Credit to Josef Wasinski on one of our chats at Samovar